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Have you ever noticed how your best ideas come to you in the quiet?
In the shower, on a walk, or just as your head hits the pillow? It's because in stillness, your mind has the freedom to connect the dots. Scientists call it "engaging in spontaneous cognition" or “stream of consciousness” thinking, essentially the act of unconsciously retrieving buried memories and generating new ideas.
Welcome to Writing Wildly
This retreat is your extended invitation into stillness — a chance to disconnect from the noise of everyday life and rediscover your truest voice. In the heart of the Costa Rican jungle, you’ll have the space and support to explore your story, expand your creative expression, and fall back in love with writing.
kind words about writing wildly
I truly feel like participating in Writing Wildly at the time that I did reconnected me to my business in a critical way, at a time that I felt lost, disconnected from my identity, and unsure of my path forward. It was a process of remembering, deepening, realizing that I am already enough AND that I have more to give. Since Writing Wildly I have created so much more prolifically, which has a direct impact on the success of my business, my launches have been MASSIVELY more easeful (because I know what to say) and successful (because people are connecting with my words) and I know that pattern will continue, and even magnify, as I get even more integrated with the tools I learned at the retreat.
it's stifling your creativity
Endless deadlines. Client emergencies. Admin tasks that seem urgent but leave you drained. Creativity requires room to breathe, and right now, your ideas are suffocating under the weight of obligations.
Writing Wildly was designed to break this cycle.
Over five days, we’ll step away from the grind and into a space that nourishes your creativity. You’ll unearth the stories you’ve been too busy to tell, shed the layers of self-censorship holding you back, and reconnect with your inner writer.
I want in!
a reckoning with your expression
Writing Wildly is a retreat for people who love words and the process of creating with them.
It’s a space to pause the noise, step away from deadlines, and dive fully into your writing — whether you’re writing your next article, working on a book, or simply exploring your creative expression.
This is time set aside just for you and your words.
Through daily workshops, immersive writing circles, and one-of-a-kind experiences in Costa Rica’s breathtaking wilderness, you’ll have the structure and freedom to explore your ideas, experiment with new styles, and build momentum in your writing practice.
You don’t need to have a “big project” to join — just a desire to write and the willingness to show up for the creative process.
Perfection and productivity don't exist here. Only exploration. Shedding self-doubt, peeling back the layers of fear and self-censorship, and uncovering the stories that have shaped you—and the ones you’re still becoming.
Like, yes. Ok.
"So much has happened since Costa Rica"
01 / 06
I added the final draft of our writings to my website and the offer sold out. What you got me to do in the jungle, what you made me see in my story. I have no words for you about how you saw me, how you see me, so eloquently and unafraid. I am in a deep bow for meeting you and having you in my life now as a mentor, teacher, friend and sister. Thank you from all the light in the sky.
02 / 06
I’m still in awe of how our retreat has changed my life on so many levels.
The most magical week in the jungle that surpassed all of my wildest dreams. I feel like a different person in the most magical way. Thank you for being you and creating this extraordinary retreat. You have changed my life and deeply impacted all of us. You have an incredible gift of seeing people and that's what made this week magic.
03 / 06
"Your words overwhelm me and touch my heart on a very deep level"
Thank you for inviting me into the Writing Wildly first circle. I can't stop telling everyone about the experience. It was extraordinary beyond my expectations. I can't wait to return for the next one. 2025 SIGN ME UP!
04 / 06
"I’ve always wanted to be a writer, but the “shoulds” were keeping me small"
This retreat made me realise what I really needed to do was come home to myself. Stop giving away my power. Believe in my capacity to create. I don’t feel peace about most things. I worry over decisions. Overthink interactions. But even in the whitewater rush, my inhales were calm. My head clear. I'm prepared for wherever the river may take me next.
05 / 06
"One day, I promise, I will articulate what this weekend, you, have done for me"
I'm not thanking you for finding and bringing us to this place or pulling together the most incredible set of humans, or for taking us on our first rapids. My thank-you is for showing me that a girl from Lancashire can (and will) do great things. My ambition is what brought me to Costa Rica, I knew I was meant for more but couldn't figure out what that was. And I am leaving knowing my thread, FUCK! What a gift! Mate you are such a gift! What I wasn't expecting was the inner work, the healing, the truth-telling, the being seen, the bonding, the friendships that have formed for life. I will be forever grateful.
06 / 06
"I have a newfound clarity about what I want to say, where I want to say it, who I'm saying it for, and WHY"
I am much more confident in sharing my voice. I was stalling on making certain decisions before this retreat. I was unsure of what I wanted to do next, or why. All my attempts felt so forced. I now feel ready to move forward with an aligned vision. And I've already started! It finally feels so clear and so natural.
...and let them be the ultimate catalyst to bring your best work, your brightest identity and your truest words to life.
Running (or hiding) from expression, from new experiences, from themselves,
for creativeS, WRITERS & WANNABE WRITERS who are tired of
and instead want to run towards them.
Spend time with your words, your writing, your ideas, your voice with tools, workshops and guidance to uncover what you really want to say
Push past your comfort zone (both physically and in your writing) and experiment with new writing techniques, styles, and mediums
Produce writing that you feel excited about, that feels true and real and alive for you and build a practice that is both healing and expansive
Explore the stories, experiences, and insights that have shaped you, in a safe space to practice feeling seen and heard
You will be encouraged to:
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Create a body of work that accesses a deeper level of thinking that is just not available to you while you're in the daily grind
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5 days of soul-expanding, greatest-work inducing workshops... and the space to process, INTEGRATE & CREATE
True creativity thrives in a balance of structure and freedom. That's why we've designed a program that combines daily workshops with ample time and space for personal reflection, exploration, and creation. The specific sessions will ultimately be curated for the group, but expect topics centred around expression, creative writing, storytelling, visibility, voice, social media with Xanthe and a session on expressing your creativity visually with our photographer, Charlie.
Here's how it's going down...
02
pushing yourself out of your comfort zone physically
When you fully engage your body, you give your mind the freedom to roam. You will navigate the physical challenges of the wilderness & release the mental blocks that have been keeping your creativity in a choke hold. By stepping out of your head and into your body, you create space for your subconscious to deliver the ideas and insights that have been waiting to surface. And there is nothing like connecting with people as you navigate class 3 & 4 rapids together.
03
thought partnership & support to refine your personal writing style
As a creative, pushing boundaries is something your curious, rebellious heart is drawn to naturally. But that can be a lonely place. It's rare to find thought partners who understand your passion, and who fully grasp that you want to create something extraordinary through your life, people who are exactly where you are, who can challenge your assumptions, help you see things from a new angle and help you get comfy with the uncomfortable. Everyone at the retreat gets 1:1 time with both Xanthe and I.
04
5 nights in the mountainS of costa rica
Everyone talks about the beaches of Costa Rica. But the mountains and rivers are where the real magic is. To simply be in this environment is to step into another world entirely – a world that gets into your bones. This experience is as authentic Costa Rica as it could possibly be. This is my home, my friends and family. You will be taken care of by locals, support the most beautiful local businesses and experience a side of Costa Rica that very few people are lucky enough to experience.
05
time with a world-class, in-demand content photographer
Being seen is an essential part of the creative process. It's a way of anchoring your transformation, of making it real and tangible and undeniable. And, it can be the most vulnerable part of any artist's journey. Most of us want to just create and hide. That's why we've partnered with one of the most sought-after content photographers in the country – a visual storyteller who understands the power of the lens, who can help you translate your vision into outer expression. You will get 1:1 photography sessions as well as a group session on telling your story through video & photo.
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the magic of community with creative women
Imagine sitting in a circle, surrounded by a group of women who truly get it. Women who understand the exhilaration of a creative breakthrough and the vulnerability it takes to share your words, your story, your truth. These are the kind of women you’ll find at Writing Wildly — impressive, kind, wildly creative souls who are ready to see you, hold space for you, and celebrate you. We'll laugh. Really, belly laugh. We'll build connections that last long after you leave Costa Rica and a network of creative collaborators and friends for life.
I NEED TO BE THERE ▸
kind words about writing wildly
I used to think of writing in two clear categories: the writing that is for the world (creative) or the writing that is for me (reflective), but the retreat made me realize that there is a third option: creative writing that is for me, that allows me to process my memories and experiences and thoughts. Now I understand writing as a tool I can use to tell my own stories back to myself and, in doing so, release the narratives that dance around in my head incessantly, causing shame and blame and anxiety.
who for
this is
seasoned writers
You’ve written for years and want to take your craft to the next level. Perhaps you’re looking to deepen your connection to your work, find clarity for new ideas, or just carve out sacred time to write without distraction.
copywriters
You want to refine your personal writing style, build a body of work, and uncover creative approaches that elevate your OWN messaging, because you spend most of your time doing this for other people.
creative entrepreneurs
Those of you who already KNOW the power your words have and are craving the space to explore what your work could look like without the constant pull of deadlines and deliverables. This retreat is a chance to reconnect with your creativity, not as a means to an end, but as an act of discovery and expression.
PEOPLE who want to write
You can feel it — a quiet nudge to pick up the pen, to explore what’s been waiting to come through. Whether it’s a book, a blog, or a message, this is your chance to tune out the noise, step into stillness and bring your words to life.
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When I think about my love for words, it always takes me back to my mum. Our house was a maze of books — stacked on tables, spilling off shelves, perched precariously on top of long-forgotten cups of tea. There was never a day when she wasn’t lost in a story, and it’s from her that I inherited this all-consuming belief in the magic of words.
Writing has shaped my very bones, it's how I understand myself, my business and how I’ve navigated both. Writing is a way of life. It’s how I’ve built my career, it's how I've connected with people all over the world, it's how I've helped clients make millions.
In this retreat, we’re exploring writing as a practice of transformation:
→ A process of unraveling the myths you’ve been taught about creativity and originality, and stepping into a more expansive, authentic relationship with your ideas.
→ A way to question, challenge, and rewrite the stories that have shaped you.
→ An invitation to cultivate creative courage — not uniquely for the sake of visibility, but for the truth that emerges when you allow your writing to be messy, personal, and free. And how that alone can change your life.
All positive change in the world starts with a well-told story
Hi, I'm LOIS & I'll be your host
We will be joined by THE Queen of Content herself, Xanthe Appleyard of Oh Sierra Creative. Xanthe will host a workshop to round up our time in the jungle, focussed on visibility and the practical side of taking what you uncover at the retreat to the outside world. Xanthe is gifted at turning the mystical into the practical and has a strategic mind unlike anyone I've ever met. She coached me through one of the biggest uplevels and transitions in my business and entire career to date. I owe so much of my current success to her gentle wisdom and I am so excited to share her with you in Costa Rica. She's here to coach, teach & write with you.
Xanthe is a marketing educator, strategist and passionate community builder. As the co-founder of Oh Sierra, alongside her husband Frank, Xanthe helps creative leaders grow invested communities and become the leaders they know they're meant to be.
meet the crew...
Daniela is my glue, my right hand woman and the person who keeps this *waves arms up and down* whole operation running smoothly. She ALWAYS has a smile on her face and brings the most beautiful energy to any space. She's local to the area and is around for anything and everything. A kind word, a quick question, emotional support, mindset coaching, logistics and so much more.
With Danita, you know you're in the best possible hands. If you have a question, need support or just forgot your toothbrush, she'll always be there, you'll never need to look too far. Nothing is too much for her. Everything she does, she does with love. I feel so much peace running retreats knowing she's there with us through it all.
A passionate surfer and content creator, Charlie is an infinite source of growth, visual stories and imagination. As a Photographer, content director and filmmaker, he has a gift for making visibility in front of the camera feel like the most natural thing in the world.
He studied cinema in Mexico City before deciding to travel the world with the purpose of improving his passion and creativity and has since been invited to film on huge creative projects all over the world. In addition to spending some 1:1 time with Charlie in front of the camera, you'll also get the opportunity to learn from him directly (he's the genius responsible for all of the photography you see on this page, and the girls at our last retreat described him as, "the safest, sweetest and kindest masculine energy that balanced us perfectly"
Plus, you will:
By the end of this experience you will...
Leave the jungle with a newfound clarity of purpose, a deep connection to your voice & personal writing style & a transformed sense of yourself as a writer and a creative force.
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kind words about writing wildly
This experience was INCREDIBLE. There's nothing like the view of the jungle to awaken your creativity. I cherished those early morning writing sessions, putting pen to paper while watching the sun rise over the mountains and the hummingbirds dance in the flowers. I feel so much more inspired to share my creative expression. As a professional copywriter, I kept my personal writing practice completely private to myself for many years. This retreat helped me realize that I don't just love doing this kind of writing for myself. I actually do have things I want to share!
"Writing is a process of self-liberation, self-revelation & self-discovery"
Writing is one of the most powerful tools you have at your disposal for understanding yourself, your work and what you're here to do. Your words are what make your ideas spread. And when you know how to use them well, when you know what stories to tell, honestly it really does feel like magic.
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- Ray bradbury
$5500 $4400 or 3 x $1488
Private rooms
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““I hope you will go out and let stories, that is life, happen to you, and that you will work with these stories... water them with your blood and tears and your laughter till they bloom, till you yourself burst into bloom.”
― Clarissa Pinkola Estés,
Women Who Run With the Wolves
Anna found her message, purpose & launched her dream business
“It was lois who first really saw what i now know is my purpose”
She quickly identified the parts of me that I want to be known for. It was her that truly understood and saw what I now know is my purpose. She gave me the confidence to be bold with my messaging.
Kelley found her voice & hit 90,000 followers
“it was so helpful distinguishing my voice, my message and who i want to be.”
Lois really sought to understand me so we could bring that into my copy. She is such a warm, loving person to be around and I deeply appreciate that about her. While working together I defined my voice, my impact, my message, grew over 60,000 followers to hit above 90k and had my biggest program launch to date.
jules 3x HER following, BOOKED DREAM SPEAKING GIGS
“with Lois' support i was able to step into the leader i'm meant to be”
Having her in my corner has felt like a 'secret hack' (even though there aren't any). I love her straight-talking, honest business advice & approach. Her copy is genius. Working with her I've tripled my following, launched my first (dream) group program, and booked speaking gigs that were literally on my vision board.
claire added multi 6 figures in revenue
"the copy, messaging and strategy she created generated over 6 figures in profit"
Working with Lois, I launched two new signature offers that she wrote the copy for and was also behind the messaging and strategy, they have been integral to my business' forward motion and generated over 6 figures in profit just in the first launch, they are signature offers still to this day. I'm not sure where I'd be without her.
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